I was reading Colossians 3 in I found in verses 12-14 some astounding statements.
Colossians 3:12-14 says, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which bonds them all together in perfect unity.”
Wow, the first statement makes all the rest come to pass in our lives. It says “as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly love.” If we could truly grasp what this means to us, that we are holy and dearly loved. Every human in the world desires to be dearly loved. We are born with the innate desire to be loved. So no matter what our upbringing was, whether loving or not, we can look to our Heavenly Father to dearly love us. First and foremost, before we can embark on the journey our Heavenly Father has for us, which is stated in the next scriptures, we must understand and truly absorb what being dearly loved means.
There are three kinds of love: eros love, philos love, and agape love. We are familiar with eros love. Eros is a Greek term which means desire and longing. It is romantic love and has much to do with the physical attraction we have between man and woman. In the beginning of a romantic relationship, this kind of love is apparent but if it is not checked and kept in balance, it can become selfish and possessive.
Philos love is in relationships that we have with brothers and sisters just as with our Christians brothers and sisters. It is a fondness and familiarity with people with like minds. We pal around with people who like to do the same things and think the same way. This is a rewarding kind of love that we have with friends and family but it is not always reliable and it can be hurtful at times when relationships go sour.
Agape love is the love Jesus has for His Father, that God has towards us, and the love that we are commanded to have toward everyone, believer or not. Unlike eros and philos love, we do not have to have a feeling to act on this kind of love. It is more a decision and, with that decision, we act loving towards others. This decision to love comes from the fact, not feeling, that God loves us conditionally, therefore we should want to reciprocate that by loving others in the same way. If we can truly understand this agape love that God has for us, it comes naturally that we show love toward others. If we are not loving toward others, we may not really understand how we are loved dearly by our Heavenly Father. This love is unconditional and everlasting. You can do nothing to make it go away.
The next scripture then says that we should “clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” Since we are dearly loved, we should work on developing these attributes of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. This is not to say we can do these immediately after receiving Christ, but that we should work to develop these in our lives through studying the Word of God which teaches us how to live our lives worthy of Him. And that post is for another day.
Today, know that God dearly loves you and wants the best for you. He desires that you be blessed as you are His child just all fathers want their children to be blessed. He loves you with agape love that is unconditional and everlasting.